Watched a movie in the theater after a long long time. Probably the last movie I saw in the theater (or rather the multiplex
) was Harry Potter in July. I blame Engineering and rules about “another female required if i want to watch a movie with my friends” for that.
Well coming to the movie. In one sentence it would be, “everything was as expected..nothing special”. Although the storyline is all-too-filmy, this movie is worth a watch only becasue of the way the director has handled the subject. Although it is not as touching as Parineeta (Pradeep Sarkar’s earlier film), this movie manages to keep you interested and thinking.
So we start the story with two naive sisters, living in Varanasi till fate and evil relatives threaten to make their life living hell. Then the older daughter, who hasn’t even completed her education till SSC decides to take things in her own hands and be the son of the family. She moves to Mumbai, and soon realizes she can’t make it in that evil city. But alas, the situation at home has worsened, and she is told by a hassled mother, that she cannot return unless she has some way of providing money. So the village damsel finds herself taking up the life of a high class escort, one that goes around with only the richest of businessmen. Yashraj productions has managed to put in excuses for the leading cast to visit Italy and Zurich and sing songs there. The later half of the movie deals with the younger sister arriving in Mumbai complete with an MBA, and the struggle that the elder one has to endure to keep “chhoti” from knowing the truth. All ends well as it should in a hindi movie, and the moral of the story is: If you are ever forced to become a prostitute, hope against hope that a guy who is as handsome as Abhishek Bacchan will fall in love with you and accept you in spite of “knowing everything about you”.
Sounds boring, but good direction covers up for the soppy script. But then it does make you think. Yes women have freedom, the are self-reliant. Of course we see so many female CEOs these days. I’m no feminist. But some questions do trouble me. Do women have the respect they deserve? When will women be able to travel in buses and trains without hesitating? Have you heard a girl whistelling at a guy? Or a girl threatening to throw acid on the guy’s face when he refuses to marry her? As I said, I’m no feminist. I have seen many cases of a girl ruining a guy’s entire life without as much as second thought. All coins have two sides, but some facts remain. My generation lays as much importance to the sanctity and purity of women, as did all the generations before me. Maybe the times have changed. Maybe these days it is the boyfriend instead of the husband who does the questioning. But questions are still asked, and they will be asked for a long long time to come.
October 23, 2007 at 1:20 am
HOW TRUE !!! ….
i jus loved the last two lines …
“maybe these days it is the ….but q’s r still asked …and they will b asked …….”…
cheers ….keep up the good work ..
i jus wish i had read this review …bfr i actually went for the movie myself ..[:D]
October 24, 2007 at 3:49 pm
well written…u talkd a abt a issue gal!n i agree…wid u….wil thr b a change…eva?
October 25, 2007 at 4:05 am
hmm i havent seen the movie but i thought the story line was interesting. thx for the review.
And as for ur questions, i believe women are already travelling in buses and trains without hesitation. I mean my Mom travels a lot by herself. And as for ” Have you heard a girl whistelling at a guy? Or a girl threatening to throw acid on the guy’s face when he refuses to marry her?” I think equality should be achieved in more nicer things. One doesnt become ‘equal’ to men by doing all those things, one only becomes a bad person.
October 25, 2007 at 5:29 pm
@harshit
thnks for finally commenting on my blog
@pab
thank u gal..will there be a change?? well gradually i hope so
@maverick
i travel by bus too..by myself..by hesitation i meant the fear & the uneasiness..ask your mom or sis how many mental fingers they cross before sitting next to a man in a bus, or before getting into a bus on a rainy day with even slightly wet clothes…and i don’t ask for equal status…i merely ask if men are subjected to the kind of mental and emotional suffering that women have to learn to adapt to..obviously men have pressures about completely different things, but well this post was about women
October 25, 2007 at 7:03 pm
nice post… and a grave issue to talk on. I believe things will take a long time to change before your questions are answered or they become irrelevant or obselete. I dont think even in our generation perspectives have changed. Try to observe unobtrusively and maybe you’ll realize there is a lot that needs to be done by everyone for himself/herself.
Oh and for the record, i agree that perhaps men do not have to go through the kind of stuff women have to put up with. But then, there ARE demons we have to wrestle with. Its just that we cannot shout about them because we are not expected to or supposed to. Not arguing here, just offering a perspective
October 25, 2007 at 9:00 pm
thanks delta..i agree..in my earlier comment itself..men do have different pressures…maybe i’ll write another post soon about those demons..
October 26, 2007 at 10:29 pm
i dunno how far, n how many ppl blive in this, but i personally feel that females are the one’s who lay more thorns in the path of another woman than men.
i hav struggled for equality till now…n i knw its an endless battle, but by my experience i hav had more tyms to justify to my gal frens dan guys. ( may b i got a liberal set of guys for frens)!!!
this cud b an endless discussions, views counterviews, but to find the change u want dear pal, first each one of us has to shed the clothes of gal n guy. be an individualist..learn to respect the person next to us as a human —not as a man or woman…
yes i want respect, but not as a woman…but as a human!!!!
n lastly its the way u carry urself dat matters…if u move with inhibitions at the back of ur mind…thers gonna b multiplicity of demons to handle!
guess i hav taken a lot of space!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!