June 2008


I wonder where those phrases come from. I never find lonely deserted towns to be dusty. I never find villages sleepy. Instead I find them a lot more vibrant and fresh than any of the cities we live in. Going down a road that is used by cars, buses, trucks, bullock-carts and people alike, I found myself feeling things that I would never feel otherwise. I think traveling does this to most of us. There is a certain clarity of thoughts. I think that is one of the reasons why most Paulo Coelho books say that travel plays an important role in discovering oneself. The road to Santiago may or may not be a reality, but it is a dream journey. :)

Acres and acres of green fields stretch out on both sides of the road that keeps twisting and turning through valleys. We travel alongside rivers that are meandering their way through the path of least resistance. Come to think of it, the river has carved out the very valley we are traveling in, it has that power, but yet it chooses to lengthen its journey, to sweep along the the valley like a sparkling snake, taking its time, savouring the extra twists and turns. Do you believe in omens? I do, I believe anything, and object, any incident can be interpreted to become some sign that relates to your life.

The occasional doggie, crossing the road completely brown in colour because of the monsoon. Where the population is dense enough, ( a cluster of houses), a couple of chickens scurrying along the side of the road. We passed many bullocks standing tall, tethered to their carts, at full height even taller than our car. Feels so weird, seeing there powerful creatures being tamed by humans who are plainly a lot weaker. Maybe it is a matter of convenience, you scratch my back, I scratch yours. You ensure I live a secure life, and I will serve you with all that I have.

And then comes the most pleasantly surprising sight. A group of at least 20 girls, dressed in the most funny uniform that I have seen, but nevertheless, obviously on their way to school. 20 girls! That must be the entire girl population of the village, all traipsing along the road, that doesn’t have a building in sight for at least 4-5 Kilometers. What does education mean to these people? Only one of these girls will probably see any city, or live a life that does not involve her village. Then why do you need an education? I realized with a shock how difficult it must be for the Government to plan out the education of a country where on one hand, you have students murdering other students with guns stolen from their parents, and on the other hand there are these 20 girls, walking up and down two hills and valleys to get to their school. What does a good education mean to me? It means I can call myself an Engineer, that I can apply my talents and hopefully enrich my lifestyle, and my standards of behavior and living, along with doing my bit for the society. It also means another obvious thing - A means of making money; of making a place for myself in the rat race, or rather, developing a career. But what does it means to these people. It is here that education takes its true meaning - Progress. They need to know how to handle a bank account, about how the world functions, about what rights they lawfully have. They need to know how to handle transactions. They are not thinking of careers, they are thinking of adapting and progressing. :)

All in all, I see nothing dusty or sleepy about villages. All I see, is a source a peace and calm, and a certain fresh approach to living. Is this what they call waking up and smelling the roses? :)

This post is dedicated to Adhiraj, one of my closest friends. I had told him I would write something about him about 6 months ago, and here it is finally. Adhi is one person who is capable of bringing a million expressions on his face without even making an effort! Most of them add comic relief to some tense situations and the others are enough to keep me laughing for hours. So three cheers for adhi and his humorous company! :D

In the bus, wishing people would stop taking photos

This is how an Engineering student looks while performing utterly boring pracs :)

Did anyone just say lets play games on my Playstation 3?

Please dont make me walk on the beach!

Say cheeeese!!

Thats him in Higher Secondary

Now thats a nice pic!

Heres what his orkut testimonial that I wrote says:

I’ve known adhi for abt 3 yrs now.. and he is a very nice person to know..
HOBBIES: bugging others(especially girls), teasing, irritating
making others laugh… he can make me laugh for abt 2 continuous hours..
playing video games..
F1, football
ASSETS: a face that has the funniest expressions
his CAR!!!
ability to imitate teachers
his “logical” mind
well.. adhi is a very loyal(he he), caring friend, who is always good company..

Many thanks to our common friends who provided some rare photos. :)

  1. Which is better to channelize all those negatives? Anger or sadness?
  2. Which is better? Knowing that you know only about half a subject and scoring accordingly, or thinking that you know everything and scoring 80% when you don’t really know anything.
  3. Why does the need to write something come right in the middle of exams?
  4. What is the difference between love and need? Is there really any difference? Is selfless love a myth? When we say I love you, don’t we mean I need you? Does that make us selfish?
  5. How long will it take for the exams to test really what you know? Ultimately, why do all exams come down to testing whether you can learn about 1200 pages per subject by heart, without really bothering to understand any of it? Why is there so much pressure that even when you try to understand you just end up memorizing it because there is just no time?
  6. What is it about the rains that make me want to sit down in the balcony and read a good book?
  7. If who you are, are the people you surround yourself with, and one day there are no people, then who are you now?
  8. Why why why are dogs so lovable, and why why why cant i have one?? :(
  9. Why do re-runs look so interesting today when you’ve got one of the most boring papers to answer tomorrow?
  10. Where do the advert guys from Vodafone come up with such cute ideas from? (loved the one with the bucktoothed kid sharing a drop of ink with his pretty friend :) )
  11. Sometimes why does instrumental music say much more than anything with lyrics can?
  12. A year from now, will I look at these questions and laugh at myself? :D